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• An extraordinary book, to put it mildly. I reckon the insights are hard-earned, and long matured. I could write about his style, but "style" can suggest something ornamental or separate from what he has to say. Surely the point about his poignant-written thoughts and observations, and his witty, beautifully judged comic passages is that they simply sound like the man himself, they have a well-wrought authenticity about them, they way hey are written is the whole point of them. Wordy,, one reviewer says. Well, only in the best sense. I'm a funeral celebrant, and I find his insights to be hugely resonant and helpful, his compassion and honesty exemplary- and he's bloody funny too! I just hope a lot of people read this book who are nothing to do with the end of life, with death and funerals- because as a reviewer says, this is a book about life, and how to live it better by thinking and feeling your way a little more closely towards death- just for a quick sneak, before rushing back to the telly, the saloon bar, the garden.... This book deserves to be a classic. He's a really fine writer in one of the best U.S. traditions, the down-to-earth voice from a frontier of some sort, unruffled but deeply moved.

• This book has enriched the landscape of the "last goodbye". Hilarious by turns, yet tender. I appreciated the candour and boldness in handling controversial subjects. So much I had not considered. Inspiring, entertaining,

• The Undertaking is a series of essays by Thomas Lynch, a man whose twin trades, unusual enough in themselves, and more so in combination, make him particularly suited to write on the themes of the book: he is both a poet and an undertaker. In the book Lynch writes about his day job--not the gory bits of the business, but about what it's like to care for the dead in the small town of Milford, Michigan, where very often he's burying someone with whom he's had a history in life: "After my housekeeper was installed, I went to thank Milo and pay the bill. The invoices detailed the number of loads, the washers and the dryers, detergent, bleaches, fabric softeners. I think the total came to sixty dollars. When I asked Milo what the charges were for pick-up and delivery, for stacking and folding and sorting by size, for saving my life and the lives of my children, for keeping us in clean clothes and towels and bed linen, 'Never mind that' is what Milo said. 'One hand washes the other.' "I place Milo's right hand over his left hand, then try the other way. Then back again. Then I decide that it doesn't matter. One hand washes the other either way." Lynch's specific recollections--about suicides he's known and cleaned up after, about embalming his own father--serve as entree to larger discussions--the function of funerals, the problem of assisted suicide, or, in a heart-breaking chapter, how we grow into the fear of parenting. The dark possibilities that haunt the rest of us are more real for an undertaker: "And as my children grew, so too the bodies of dead boys and girls I was called upon to bury--infants becoming toddlers, toddlers becoming school children, children becoming adolescents, then teens, then young adults, whose parents I would know from the Little League or Brownies or PTA or Rotary or Chamber of Commerce. Because I would not keep in stock an inventory of children's caskets, I'd order them, as the need arose, in sizes and half sizes from two foot to five foot six, often estimating the size of a dead child, not yet released from the county morgue, by the sizes of my own children, safe and thriving and alive. And the caskets I ordered were invariably 'purity and gold' with angels on the corners and shirred crepe interiors or powdery pink or baby blue. And I would never charge more than the wholesale cost of the casket and throw in our services free of charge with the hope in my heart that God would, in turn, spare me the hollowing grief of these parents." The book is beautifully written throughout, and thoughtful, and despite all that I've said above the author comes across as a man fully alive, who appreciates life but understands death, as a man worth knowing. At any rate, his book is very much worth reading. -- Debra Hamel

• Saw the PBS show first then got the book.. excellent book.. Thomas Lynch is an incredible writer!!

• I love this book! It is in excellent condition. Thank you so much

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